This totally depends on someone as a person. Is this a synastry, Ariel? Fortuna Conjunct the Vertex. That mars/nessus of his is also square his moon/pluto. Lastly, with me having moon conjunct neptune in my natal and venus in my 12th house, does that make me similar to venus in pisces xxx I ask because I attract men with mars in pisces and men who have pisces as a descendant/7th house , Hi Ami, Saturn draws the couple together due to karma, but Juno and South Node aspects offer more of a choice. Your articles hit me hard again:-). When someone's planet touches our natal Eros in synastry, it is as if we have been stuck by Cupid's arrow. Yes, I was thinking about this. We can still find a lot of info with no time of birth. The chart shows the TRUTH. Nessus conjuncts BML, and Dejanira conjuncts DSC and Pluto. Next, I have uncovered that in my Draconic Dejanira is 1 degree conjunct my natal Scorpio Moon. Her theme is power-alluring and irresistible. All of astrology is neutral. What is your opinion on Juno aspecting the South Node simply means that the pair was married (in some way) in a past life, or had a longterm marriage-like relationship. Your email address will not be published. Eros is looking for his equal to explore the realm of creative intimacy. I generally cannot stand them, and their tendency to be arogant and conceited towards anyone who doesnt think the way they do does come across as downright abusive to me. Can this aspect be calmed down by a Mars conjunct Saturn contact? It is not good to have a base level view on what will happen with one isolated aspect. He was considered irresistible. Come and post the charts. , Not a sag actually, but a virgo with tons of leo in her chart, lol. What I wanted to know first was what past lives we had together. PROSERPINA conjunct EROS (055') IP: Logged. How would it play out if my boyfriends Dejanira is conjunct my venus/juno conjunction but my venus/juno is part of a grand trine with my midheaven and also my moon/Bella/mars/pluto conjunction? There is no superficial way to get to know Lilith through the experience of the erotic. It makes sense when you consider how deeply Lilith desires to eat/destroy her loves mythologically. Also my true node is at 22 Cancer close to my nessus (conjunction?) I have seen it in a few people, only. Does this mean anything? Unlike Juno/Saturn aspects, Juno in aspect with the South Node does not necessarily indicate that marriage in this life will be a force. I have this kinky fantasy specifically for him putting a really big needle into me as part of a medical procedure but this isnt my kink or fetish. In fact, it is the opposite. I use the term female, but it would be the same for either sex. I just got into astrology a month ago and find it fascinating. I think Chiron is extremely important in any synastry chart because it speaks to the deepest wounds created between two people. My jupiter conjunct his sun and venus. As such, I would be careful and watchful. Lilith Synastry Sun and Lilith conjunct in the synastry chart When Sun person's Sun and Lilith person's Lilith combine, each person awakens the deep desire for individuality and creativity in each other. However, if you have Nessus/Dejanira and Mars/Uranus, particularly in hard aspect( opposition and square), it may make for dark spice, shall we say. Keep an eye on anyone who is near her. I have moon conjunct neptune and venus in 12th house. Eros represents what turns us on. his moon is in cancer so depending on what time hes born, there are 2 scenarios :1) my Saturn squares his moon but my sun and north node would conjunct it 2) my Pluto would square his moon but our moons would be in trine. I do charts for the people who want them. DRACO CHARTS (DRACO-NATAL/ DRACO-SYNASTRY) Originally posted by kellyaroman What is a draco chart in astrology ? I was sexually abused in my home by a family member. Would you say that a double whammy Nessus OPPOSITE Juno is something dangerous too ? I guess I was just worried in general, just in case :P. how about deja conjuct saturn 1 degree. Thank you Ivs. (both in Capricorn) And my pluto trine his sun and venus..xxx, Mars sq Pluto can be violence and/or violent/strong passions. A Sun conjunct Lilith transit highlights the power traits like charisma, magnetism, emotional force and leadership qualities of the Sun. . I came across your blog post and so went through my charts looking for couple friends and this one came up as having the conjunction. This brings out their dark side. And my dejanira conjunct his Venus. Eros is a spicy little asteroid who generates excitement in relationship astrology. Sun sextile/trine/conjunct Moon is often found in marriage synastry charts. I think theres a trine or sextile to other asteroids but nothing major. His makes two major squares to her inner planets. And how did you arrive at the conclusion that Nessus and Dejanira are indicative of abuse? Lets see. For that reason, I am not for everyone and know this but I seem to be appreciated by people who think like I do. Eros in a synastry chart. That is why it is so powerful. I do keep finding myself attracted to people who seem to have a strong primal power under the surface, and I dont really feel connected to Pluto myself (I dont know if thats on purpose or simply because its otherwise weakly aspected in my chart). To be honest, few people overcome Nessus. as well as to the signs and houses. It takes me several hours so I could not do it here. Sorry if this came off mean, I just dont want people to get scared over having one aspect when astrological interpretations are not set in stone. What use is reams of esoteric info for real life applications. BUT my dejanira is conjunct with his sun by one degree and my dejanira is also in the same degree as my AC What does that mean? Yes very passionate.50shades of grey is just childplay. Nessus and Dejanira do most certainly not mean abuse. Is there a good part to Nessus/deja conjunct? It is opinion, not truth. Thats weird. As for MY natal chart I also have mars and Saturn conjunct in Scorpio. There`s also lot of growth and sweetness and nothing that amounts to abuse. What about a mars 8th house overlay also trining pluto? The conjunction is, in my opinion, the only aspect that clearly dictates a marriage between these specific people. We enter the month of February, with lust, love and passion. A conjunction is the strongest, but most aspects indicate some type of marriage. Sorry if its too much info xx, Ps, sorry! Sun person helps Lilith person recognize their subconscious gifts and strengths. Mars conj Saturn is not good. It's been suggested that an understanding of someone's natal Eros gives you the keys to unlock their erotic desires. I, always, have people want to tell me that Nessus is not always abuse. With any Chiron aspect to the other persons Juno, there was a wound created through marriage in a past life. In my studies and usage of them, they play out to be the abuser and the victim. I have very wide-orbed Eros-Lilith contacts (not conjunctions) in my two last relationships (they are Eros, I'm Lilith), but both relationships were so 8th house-oriented and Plutonian that it's hard to tell where Lilith comes in. There are no planets conjunct or square either Nessue or Dejanira in either chart, the only conjunction is her Dejanira to his Nessus. so, quick question, where do I post it? Lilith Conjunct Ascendant Synastry Sun Conjunct Lilith Synastry This connection will burn as hot as the sun! I do Astrology the way that I would want to learn it. And when you really think about it this line of thought deserve to be abused is quite sociopathic in nature. Which probably held it together for SO long. Maybe, maybe not. I am so thankful to have such a resource like this for guidance. You have such a sweet spirit. we also have Eros (his) conjunct my Lilith and Pluto (mine) conjunct his Venus. My Nessus square his Venus Hardly. I should have replied to the previous post, as it was a continuation of the conversation we had started. If anything, Ive suffered abuse from others at times. You truly made my day! What does Nessus and Dejanira mean when conjuncting each other? Who does whom, so to speak? If you want to ask about 2 aspects, I will try to answer but an answer on the whole relationship needs an entire chart reading. However, if the time is right, for sure, I would trust the chart over a personal account. I will try to maintain rock solid boundaries and not get led into any weirdness as nothing is amiss yet. Currently you have JavaScript disabled. If an asteroid is conjunct an angle or a planet, placed in a prominent position, or stands out because of some other reason, it can provide an additional layer of insight in chart analysis. I had this excerpt saved from somewhere on the internet, but don't have the original source. I meant in synastry her saturn conjuct his deja 1 degree, Thats ok. Aww She may ride his case for being a victim like say, get over it etc etc, Pingback: Dark sexual relationship synastry top 5 | Signing. Eros contacts in synastry have been touted as creating attraction that cannot be denied. One person is kind of riding the other one in this. For your daughter, watch out she does not get sexually abused. You may be fated to marry. I always seem to have the opinion that these people are somewhat evil yet gullible and innocent and therefore they deserve to be abused. Are they married, Lo. with Dejanira conjunct his natal Sun thanks, M. Super passion unlike few else. That Pluto/DSC has been a source of confusion and frustration for me for a while, but now it makes sense. Check house placement and aspects to further your . I could not agree more with this. I haven't been able to find much discussion about this connection and I'm really interested in hearing stories from other people who've experienced it. Romantic Conjunctions in the 12th House If you see any intense conjunctions between the Sun, the Moon, Juno, the South Node, Saturn, Venus, Mars, Lilith, etc. This question would need me to see the whole chart because what I do is put it all together and come out with a practical answer. The same with nessus conjunct ASC? Deep soul love, incredibly painful at times. I agree with Sydney. The Lilith person brings sexual energy that is literally untamed. To put it plainly, if you have a dominant Nessus, you will be an abuser. Well, I have been thinking about the situation. I am Sag with rising capricorn and he is Capricorn w/rising Sag. If you do not have either of these in the natal but have them in synastry, it will play out the same way. I have this aspect with someone Im seeing. Things DO offset things but one must look at everything to see a final answer which is my goal when doing charts.I am not trying to sell myself here, just trying to show that your question is too deep for a quick answer, my Friend. Playing with someones emotions when these aspects are involved could lead to bad things such as violence. Always leaving them in a fog of confusion, along with lies, victim playing and guilt trips. It is desire, it is passion and love. If it has not of yet, it may be a new relationship. His natal mars, lilith, pluto conjunction is conjunct my ic and I've distanced myself from him knowing that he has wayyyy too much power over me, but every time I see him I can barely stand and immediately start shaking I am glad my post was helpful! I am very genuine towards others and fairness is must priority in all circumstances including my own critic.hate violence and abuse and stand up against it. Im pluto and he is the moon. TEA & ROSEMARY LLC. Theyre still deeply in love and their synastry and composite charts support it. They have lots of soulmate connections in the charts and both make really strong NN conjunctions and squares in synastry. Your feelings are not fact. Does it matter if he doesnt have pluto in aspect to my venus (mine is 19 Libra)? This only works with a synastry chart, and (as always) is simply my own opinion! It is a pleasure to be here. Thanks you, Jos. This is based on experience and charts, as are all my theories. Then my Nessus is 29 Cancer in almost exact opposition with the child asteroid at 28 Cap. Ceres person appreciates this, as they typically focus more on caregiving than on their own inner desires. Composite: moon conjunct Neptune, Venus square Pluto, Black moon lilth conjunct Pluto square mars conjunct ceres..any explanations on this type of relationship would be very helpful!!?? How do we honor Lilith in our lives? Also, there is no abuse either way. Ive only been studying astrology casually for 5 years, so even though I know the basic interpretation of those planets in contact, Id still love to hear it from a pro love your blog! Lilith-Mars Aspects in Synastry (conjunction, sextile, trine, opposition, square) Lilith-Mars aspects are all about clash of desires. If a mans Nessus conjuncts, your Sun, Moon, Venus, Mars or North Node, he will abuse you, in my opinion. Btw he just got married to a girl whose moon is conjunct with his nessus+sun+true node AND also, her dejanira is conjunct with his moon !!! Hardly. My Dejanira is square his venus (-0a) and conjunct his vertex (0s). I guess ill post mine and then our synastry chart. I've found that the Eros person has a "crush" on the planet person. Does nessus still be working as a tendency to abuse? It gives no leg room, and its fearful to people. They are deceiving themselves, would be a better way to say it. xx. Lilith desires sacred sex above all things. Lilith brings up deep and primal sexual energy sometimes accompanied by feelings of anger and rage. Im trying really, really hard not to jump to conclusions, so any help or advice you could give would be very much appreciated. We also had a Juno Vertex conjunction. Moon/Pluto does not have to be dark sexual but if any planetary aspect would be, it would be this. When/if that turns bad, it could become dark. I am not surprised this happened to you. . When these relationships end, it is not pretty. When she contacts Eros in another, the answer to that question is found in the heart of a powerfully erotic relationship. Amazingly accurate. I have not seen it fail in all of my chart work. When you say one which you contemplate, do you mean that the person is aware of the abuse tendency and tries to deal with it? Eros: Synastry Aspects . And how would his Saturn conjunct her dejanira play out? Do you think I need to worry about the Nessus/BML conjunction or about abusing the poor wounded birds I keep looking for? xx, haha you are so cute, I like you and you write very simple and easy to understand. M. % would be more ambient but felt imo Maria dear. Eros & Psyche in. I would say that this relationship would be INTENSE but in a beautiful way.Please, tell me about it! But I did find out that her Amor conjuncts their Dejanira-Nessus conjunction, so her Dejanira is conjunct her Amor. I know my life, and what manifests in it. However, Moon/Pluto in conjunction does not have to turn bad. under what theme of the forum? That`s very interesting information. 9. I also found out that my Nessus is 1 degree conjunct my current boyfriends Sun(Cancer). The Nessus person brings abuse to the ASC/DSC person. You are so welcome, Britt and thanks so much for telling me that you like it. Sydney, you are amazing. I always question the role of house overlays and given this topic the 8th house comes to mind. I ve met a man who have his mars = my moon (1) in taurus and square my uranus (2) in aquarius. But I always have the feeling that people want to abuse/fool me in one way or another and they get surprised when I respond, I constantly need to stand up for myself in any sort of situation, from the cashier in the shop to colleagues at work. And For example, I am the moon person and my mars also falls in his 8th and much of what you described for moon/pluto conjunction sounds like us. We are to take the blueprint that is given and then do what we want with it. There is NO way this will work out well, in my opinion. That can be justified through basic psychology, I think. it would be such a fortunate relationship with his Jupiter conjunct my ASC in synastry, and Venus-Jupiter exact composite conjunction right on his natal Sun! I often see this aspect in the charts of couples who have been married for many years. my sun in exact opposition to his pluto (I have this aspect in the natal chart) and my pluto in conjunction with his sun in an orb of 7 even far he can feel it? Good afternoon, thank you for this article Most karmic astrology synastry reports dont take Chiron into account nearly enough. You, as the Pluto in the trine with his Sun and venus could kind of see through him lol, Thank you Amy for your reply We are both passionate, but luckily, by nature, not violent people thank God . Nonetheless, your interpretation of dejanira and nessus is intriguing. It is just the North Node, after all, not a personal planet. Hi, anyone can tell me more about a double whammy Pluto-Venus? Moon conjunct pluto Im composite and moon in 12th house composite (our feelings were a secret for a long time as we didnt know how we felt and were not able to be together for a long time). The first would be Nessus. My dejanira is in opposition to his sun and without any other aspects. what do you think about a double-wammy moon sextile pluto and pluto square moon in sinastry? It is real to be neutral. This is not a dark aspect, either. I've never had a more natural and effortless sexual connection to someone in my life, and it blinded me to a lot of things. Venus mars aspects This ascendant descendant conjunction alone does a very interesting thing in the chart. It is typical cat and mouse game with taboo twists. His Eros is on her Descendant and her Eros makes a square to his Sun and conjuncts his Vertex. We talk about it often (3rd house moon overlay) its just a bit overwhelming sometimes like a sweet dream one moment, then an absolute nightmare. How do you relate to all the men who have their Pluto there? Check out our 40+ page relationship astrology eBook! . DO they have Moon trine Moon or Moon conjunct Moon. What does this conjunction mean in a synastry? Theyre both devoted and kind people and Ive known her since we were teens. Both of them are loaded with sexual power, so their interaction is often explosive. That being said, the charts WILL play out, imo and ime. And posting my charf sounds like fun, I just might . I'm so cappy Knowflake . You can have Mars/Pluto with a fling and not feel a thing in your emotions.We have the same kind of weighting with the conjunction, trine, opposition and square as we did above. How we respond to this synastry contact has a lot to do with our own relationship to power and sexuality. Her NN on his 7th makes me think its a past life hold.